I learned to be persistent in prayer when my children were little. If you have ever had a 7-year-old around, you can surely relate.

Of all persistent children in the world, I believe my youngest daughter takes the cake. She always knows what she wanted. And asks for it. A lot.

When she was little, she would not take no for an answer until mom got her attention, looked her in the eye and spelled out: “I said N-O!” for the 15th (and hopefully last) time. Still, after about five minutes, she would find a way to state her case once more, with a reasoning behind it that would make the best attorney in town shine in court.  She’s pretty good, I must say.

As I reflect on the way my children ask me for the desire of their hearts, it makes me realize how very timid we tend to be when we pray.

[bctt tweet=”We often say our prayers without conviction and consistency, as if we were approaching a limited, impatient and stingy God.” username=”PatHolbrook”]

A friend once told me that she did not want to bother God with her requests because she felt he was too busy with so many major problems around the world.

Although you may think this is a pretty laughable statement, I appreciate her honesty. And I believe that too often we pray that way. Who has not caught himself or herself saying the same prayers, like a mantra, without the conviction that God was listening? Or that He cared. Or, for that matter, that He willed to answer.

About four years ago in the beginning of Summer, I shared a prayer request with three of my closest friends. I was talking to one of them one morning and was surprised by her statement. She said she was praying, believing in God for a miracle, and that He would answer our prayers by the end of the summer, which would indeed be the perfect timing for that prayer to be answered.

When she said that, I was taken aback. I realized that I was not praying so specifically. Worse yet, deep down inside, I did not really believe it would happen. (I know – shame on me!)

But my friend’s bold faith stirred up something inside of me, and I made a decision that day. I chose to pray as Jesus told us we should:

“So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened.” Luke 11:9-10

At that time, I happened to be reading a book on prayer. In one of the chapters, the author mentioned that when it comes to the desires of our hearts, we should pray without ceasing. Like my 7 year old, we should pray and never stop until God opens the door and answers our prayers. As long as our requests line up with His will and His character, we should keep on asking, keep on knocking and keep on seeking. We should be bold and persistent, impertinent even. Like the nighttime visitor in Jesus’ parable of Luke 11.

That little book and my friend’s bold faith shook up my prayer life. I don’t approach God like a timid child anymore. I come in like my little ones do, without ceremony, and ask Him for little and big things with the conviction that He listens and cares.

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By the way, in case you wonder, our prayer was answered and yes, it was answered before the summer was over.

Today, I sit in front of my computer, with a childish smile across my face and a heart filled with gratitude and resolve: No more timid praying. God is listening and often has His hand on the door knob, waiting for His children to knock and keep on knocking.

So go on. Knock, knock, knock on Heaven’s door!

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